Why it stays with you

Why this kind of love is so hard to carry alone

Secret love and unspoken feelings stay trapped because there is no normal way to process them. You cannot talk it through with friends, cannot grieve it openly, cannot get the outside confirmation that what you feel is even real. So it circles instead. The same thoughts, the same moments, the same questions, with nowhere to land.

Guided journaling gives the spiral somewhere to go. Structured prompts slow your thoughts down and give language to feelings that have been living in your body without words. Research on expressive writing (Pennebaker, 1997) shows that naming an emotion reduces its intensity, because your nervous system stops treating it as something unresolved. That is what this system was built for.

Pennebaker, J. W. (1997). Opening up: The healing power of expressing emotions. Guilford Press.

The Emotional Clarity Journey

Start where you are. Move at your own pace. Each step builds on the last.

01 · Begin Here

Free Guide

A free 7-day resource that introduces emotional reflection and helps you take the first step without commitment.
7 Days
Start Free
02 · Explore

What If Journal

A short guided journal designed to explore unresolved thoughts, unanswered questions, and emotions that have been carried for too long.
7 Days
Explore Now
03 · Build Clarity

Emotional Clarity Calendar

A structured daily practice that helps you build self-awareness, recognize emotional patterns, and create consistency.
30 Days
Build Clarity
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04 · Go Deeper

Writing the Unspoken

A guided digital experience focused on emotional release and expression. This helps you process feelings you have never fully expressed.
Guided eBook
Go Deeper
05 · Transform

Love in Secrecy Journal

The flagship transformation experience. A comprehensive 90-day guided journey designed to support emotional clarity, self-discovery, and personal growth.
90 Days
Begin Transformation
06 · Support Your Journey

Coming Soon

Complementary support products to enhance your emotional clarity journey. Stay tuned for our science-backed Mood Balance and Stress Balance supplements.
Support Products
Coming Soon
Not sure where to start?

Emotional Clarity Check-in

Answer 6 questions to discover which tool supports you best right now.

Question 1 of 6

When something feels emotionally heavy, what is your first instinct?

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Question 2 of 6

Which of these feels most true about where you are right now?

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Question 3 of 6

What kind of support feels most comforting to you right now?

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Question 4 of 6

How do you tend to relate to writing as a form of self-care?

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Question 5 of 6

Which of these feels most unresolved for you lately?

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Question 6 of 6

If you could give yourself one gift right now, what would feel most meaningful?

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Your Match

Simone Pleifer, Founder of Journals by Simone

Created with structure, science, and lived experience

I built Journals by Simone during a season of secret love, when clarity felt out of reach. As a nutrition scientist and clinical research lead, I believe emotions deserve the same structure as science. Today, these guided journals help you name what you feel, recognize patterns, and move forward with calm confidence.

Inside the brand

Why digital-first

Digital-first keeps reflection private, immediate, and intentional. No overproduction. No unnecessary shipping. For those who love writing by hand, Print-on-Demand editions are produced only when ordered.

Frequently Asked Questions

A calm place to understand the Emotional Clarity Journey, especially when feelings are unspoken or hard to name.

Where do I start?

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Begin with the free 7-day guide. It is a gentle entry into the Emotional Clarity Journey with no pressure and no commitment.

The free guide helps you take a first honest look at what you are feeling. From there, the What If Journal gives you 7 focused days of guided reflection. The 30-Day Calendar builds a daily awareness practice, and the Love in Secrecy Journal takes you deeper over 90 days. Each step builds on the last. You can begin wherever you are.

Is this right for me if my situation feels complicated?

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Yes. This system was created for exactly that. For love that cannot be spoken out loud, for feelings that have no easy name, and for situations where clarity feels far away.

The Emotional Clarity Journey is not about having the right words or the right answers. It is about creating a private, steady space to hear yourself again. Whether you are navigating secret love, a situationship, or feelings you have been carrying alone, there is a place for you here.

Is my journaling private?

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Yes. What you write is for your eyes only. Nothing you journal is visible to Journals by Simone.

Digital products are downloaded directly to your device. No writing is stored, shared, or accessible to anyone else. This matters especially when you are processing something you are not ready to say out loud.

How is my purchase delivered? Is it instant?

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Yes. Digital products arrive the moment your purchase completes, through a download link on the checkout page and in your email confirmation.

There is no waiting and no shipping for digital journals, calendars, and eBooks. You can begin writing within minutes of your purchase. Print editions are produced on demand and ship globally within 5 to 10 business days.

How does my purchase appear on my card statement?

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Your statement simply shows Journals by Simone. Nothing about the topic of your journal appears anywhere on your bill.

The charge is listed as Journals by Simone, nothing more. Digital files arrive by email with no physical packaging, so nothing reveals what you are working through beyond what you choose to keep. Your reflection stays entirely yours.

Can I return a digital product?

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Digital sales are final because delivery is instant. If anything goes wrong with your download, we will make it right.

Because digital products are delivered immediately after purchase, they cannot be returned once the file has been downloaded or accessed. By ordering, you consent to immediate delivery under EU consumer law. If you ever run into a technical issue with a file, write to hello@journalsbysimone.com and we will resolve it quickly.

Is there a subscription?

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No. You pay once and the product is yours to keep, forever.

There are no subscriptions, memberships, or recurring charges at Journals by Simone. Every journal, calendar, and eBook is a single purchase that stays yours. You reflect at your own pace, and nothing keeps running in the background.

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